Proverbs 25:7-9

The Voice

⁷ Truly, it is far sweeter to have someone of influence say to you, “Come up here and join us,”
    than to be ordered to some lower rank in front of a noble.
Just because you think you have seen something
⁸     doesn’t mean you should be quick to go to court,
For what will you do
    when your neighbor disproves the charge and embarrasses you?
⁹ Instead, discuss the matter directly with your neighbor,
    but in doing so, remember never to reveal another person’s secrets;